May 2022

Growing up: if independence is the only strategy that you know (whether it be taught, or self developed), then independence is your strategy for survival.  Regardless of how much you energy you pour into this single strategy, it’s still a survival strategy.  Think of it… Read More »Independence as an RPG metaphor

Writing this and seeing if this resonates with other’s.  Read this in a book and thought it was worthwhile to paraphrase. The specific topic is emotional intelligence/emotional intimacy. When you are a kid, there are 3 main ways you learn about anything in this world.… Read More »Poor Emotional Intelligence education leading to poor relationship into adulthood