September 2022

Writing this in an effort to see if this summarize your experiences. Starting from childhood, you’re taught that the world is a tough harsh place (Generational Trauma perhaps).    You need to become strong; as a kid you’re weak and deficient and if you don’t… Read More »Internalized Shame; processing feelings really does matter. 

To start off with, the “Apps” can often be a huge burning dumpster fire. I will not disagree with that (Even if I met my current partner on Coffee meets Bagel) Where I’m coming from is how on the apps, people set standards and dealbreakers… Read More »Dating Culture, Perfectionism in looking for Red Flags